the jones

Taytum is here

2011-11-14T10:55:00.000-08:00

Our little miracle is here!!! Life will never be the same. Taytum Rae Jones was born 11-01-11 @ 6:10am and was 7lbs 8ozs 21inches long! Labor and delivery was a good experience and nothing like I expected. My Dr wanted to induce me because my body was acting like I was having my 2 or 3 baby and was Dr was afraid of how fast I was going to have her. We got to the hospital on 10-31-11 @ 8pm and got my IV started and all the paperwork done. The dang IV took about an hour and a half to get in and was the worst pain of everything. Once that was done everything else was good. Got my epidural (heaven!!!!!) and I was progressing just as fast as the Dr thought I would. We had one little scare where Babys heart rate dropped for about 2 minutes. Pretty scary to be woken up with 5 nurses over you all doing something and trying to act like nothing is going on. When that happened the nurses told us that the Dr was watching everything on a monitor at home. He later told us he was sitting in his door way handing out candy to the trick or treaters while watching how baby and I were doing on he monitor. We thought that was pretty neat. About 5:30 the nurse said well let see where you are at, pull the sheet back and says "wow theres baby's head! we are ready to have a baby I need to go call the Dr!". Such a weird feeling and words I still at that point I never thought I'd hear. Dr showed up and everything was ready to get baby out after about 10 minutes of pushing we heard the sweetest sound of Taytums cry! The cord was wrapped around her neck which is why her heart rate had dropped but she was perfect! Such an amazing feeling when they placed her on my chest. I just started crying. Knowing just moments before she was with my Grandma and Brandons grandparents and they all gave her big kisses and sent her to us is a wonderful feeling. Brandon and I are on cloud 9 and never want to come down. The rest of the hospital stay was great. I got a foot message, we got a way nice celebration steak dinner and Taytum got a little photo shoot. (I will post those when I get them). Its amazing how someone so little can change your whole world in a short amount of time. We love our little Taytum Rae so much. Thanks to all who came to visit us and brought us meals once we got home.

At 4 days old Taytum went to her first of many football games!! Daddy called her their good luck charm because the games wasn't going that great and then Taytum showed up and they won in OT. We will see if her good luck magic works again this weekend as we go to Reno for the state game.

Crazy life

2011-10-30T13:15:00.000-07:00

Once again this is more for myself since I don't write in a journal like I should.

Its crazy how life works out. A year ago this weekend Brandon took me to Park City for the weekend because I needed to get away. I was at one of my lowest of lows in life. Seemed like nothing was working out and I just wanted to give up on everything. I was having a hard time with not being able to get pregnant and was tired of Brandon and I both having to deal with it. When Dr's tell you that YOU are the reason you can't give your husband kids and he is "normal", it hurts. We had committed that year we were going to do everything we were supposed to as far as going to church, the temple, tithing, ect and it was like the harder we tried the further away we got to having kids. I would tell Brandon all the time that maybe we should just call it quits on our marriage because it wasn't fair what he was having to go through because of me. Both of us shouldn't be having to go through this. He would tell me how crazy I was and he married me for me not just to have kids. I wonder all the time how I got so lucky to have found such an amazing man.

Fast forward to the same weekend a year later and who would have thought I would be having a baby any day now! It still doesn't seem real or possible that within a year I have gone from the lowest point to one of the highest points in life. This has been the most amazing past 9 months of our lives. We have been so blessed and know Heavenly Father has been right there making sure everything goes as he planned. I have not worried one bit that something would go wrong. Ive had the most calm feeling that everything would be ok and that the baby would be ok. Going through IVF you are always waiting for the bad news but I haven't had that once we got our positive blood test back. We are so excited to be taking tho next step in life and can't wait for Taytum to finally join our family.

Thanks to all of our family and friends who have been there for us over the last 5 years as we have been on this crazy roller coaster called life. We love you all and can't wait to show off our little girl!! Hopefully soon.

Taytum Update

2011-10-02T12:45:00.000-07:00

On Friday September 23, I had a Drs appt to check and see how the baby and I are doing. My Dr was going to be out of town so I saw his PA. I have been having some pain up under my left rib area. It doesn't feel like its the baby kicking its like a burning/muscles being ripped apart. Not very fun. I mentioned this to the PA and she said "oh it probably just your baby". She did the normal measure my belly and said lets get some blood work and put you on a monitor just to make sure there isnt anything out of the normal going on. They hooked my up and waited 20 minutes and the PA came back and looked at the print out of results and said" oh my you are having contractions every 1-2 minutes get to the hospital now!" Brandon and I looked at her and were like what? I wasn't feeling anything other then the pain under my ribs. She said she was calling the hospital to let them know we were on our way but we needed to get there now. We looked at each other and were in a daze and headed to the hospital. I called my mom to see if they were going to meet us at an ultrasound appt we had and told her we werent going to make it there because of what was going on. The whole time Brandon and I were like should we be nervous, worried, or scared. We didn't know if we were going to go have baby or what. We got to the hospital and told them our dr sent us because I was having contractions every 1-2 minutes and the looked at me like are you really? They hooked me up to their monitors and sure enough I was still having contractions but I had no clue. After 3 rounds of shots they were able to get them to stop. It was such a weird experience. I wasn't nervous or freaking out. They put me on bedrest for the weekend and said if I had any more contractions to go back in. We laughed because I said I didn't know I was having them to begin with. I had to go back on monday because my pain under my ribs was back and pretty strong and had to have 2 more rounds of shots to stop contractions again. I saw the Dr Tuesday and he put me on a pill to try to get them to stop and keep Taytum cooking for 2 more weeks. He's hoping I make it 2 more weeks but said she might come anytime and will most likely not make it to Nov.6. Brandon and I were joking that after all this the little stinker is now going to hold on and I will go over my due date. I see the Dr Thursday to see whats going on. Its crazy to think she is actually going to come and we are going to have a baby.

Taytums BBQ

2011-10-02T12:35:00.001-07:00

On September 10 we had a BBQ celebrating the soon arrival of our sweet Taytum. It was everything I wanted. Low key, good food, good company and a good time. A lot of our friends and family were able to make it and spoiled our little girl. I was mad I forgot to pull out my camera until towards the end but at least my brother zack was able to get some good pictures. Thanks to all who were able to make it out. It meant a lot to us. Now we wait for her to come.

AZ Football Game

2011-10-02T12:08:00.000-07:00

Back in August Moapa Valley Football team was invited to play in a game against the AZ 3A state champs at the AZ Cardinals stadium. It was such a fun and once in a lifetime experience for the team. Stayed in a 5star hotel, while the guys were at practice or team meeting us wives were out shopping. I told Brandon I could get used to that life if he was to go on and coach at a higher level. We both know that I really couldn't because of the time we would spend apart but it was fun for a weekend. We went on a tour of the stadium, the boy got to go in the locker rooms that the NFL players use and play on the same field as guys they watch on tv. It was a really neat weekend ant to top it off we won! Moapa was the first Nevada team to win this game. Bishop Gorman has gone the past few years to play the 4A but has lost. They did win this year which was cool both Nevada teams won.

Please come celebrate with us!

2011-08-26T10:52:00.000-07:00

I do not want a traditional baby shower so we are having a BBQ. We want to share this special time with all our friends and family. Come join the fun and excitement!

****** If you plan on coming, we moved the time back to 6. With as hot as it has been we don't want everyone to die of the heat!*********

Slacker!!!!

2011-08-22T18:35:00.000-07:00

I've been a HUGE slacker!! This is like 5 months in one. And because I am tried of trying to rearrange the pictures its going to be out of order.

In August we had a birthday party for my littlest sister Mackenzie. We went to king putt and had a little party at my parents house with a few of her friends.

June, My little brother Zack graduated high school!!

May 7th My little sister Jordan married Rowdy! We are happy for them and excited to have Rowdy in the family.

We went with Brandon Lindsey Colton Zack and Kenzie on a trip to the shark reef!

In May, Zack had his Court of Honor and officially received his Eagle Scout. We are so proud of Zack and all the hard work he put in.

In June we took a trip down to San Diego for 2 Braves games. It was a fun weekend hanging out and exploring San Diego.

Ok I think Im caught up for now. Still have to blog about the awesome weekend we had with the high school football team this past weekend but that will be done by Friday. It need a post all of its own it was that awesome!

Just a few thoughts

2011-07-26T08:58:00.001-07:00

Just a few things I'd like to jot down for myself.
Today would have been my Grandma Waters 75th birthday. It also marks 2 years since Heavenly Father called her home. While I miss her so much and it doesn't get easier with time I am reminded of her all the time. I am reminder of her a lot through her daughters, My mom and my aunts. To me, my Aunt Tami seems to have my Grandmas laugh. I love hearing Aunt Tami laugh. Grandma loved to sit back and laugh at all of the silly thing we would do.
My Mom has my Grandmas hands. I see my moms hands and its like I'm watching my Grandmas hands. I remember sitting in church in Alhambra when I was little, and tracing the veins in Grandmas hand and realizing I have the same hands as well. My mom has a picture that I will always cherish of her and my Grandmas hands.
Aunt Tedene's sense of humor. I don't ever remember a time where my mom, grandma and Aunt Tedene and I weren't laughing to the point of peeing our pants. From the time Grandma had knee replacement and we realized from her room windows we could go to the waiting room and make faces at each other. Or the "bright idea" light in the hospital rooms. We were always able to have a great time together and laugh.
I feel so blessed to have had her as a Grandma. I hope I make her proud with the things I do and cant wait until we all get to be together again. I know she is having a great party today and having fun with Zoey, Taytum, and Wyatt and all her other great grand kids that will come.
We Love you Grandma and promise to always take care of Grandpa.

Taytum Rae Jones

2011-06-05T15:41:00.000-07:00

We had our 16 week a week and a half check up and Dr said everything was looking great. He said he was leaning towards a girl. We had an 3d ultrasound right after that appt and they confirmed 100% girl. It was crazy. The lady had the probe on my tummy for like 2 seconds and was like all baby girl here. I guess when that's what you do all day you can pick that up that fast. It lasted about 30 minutes and was so fun to sit there and watch Taytum play and move around. My Mom and Dad went with us to this one and we will have another one when I'm farther along that all family is invited to. The next day was Saturday and when I had just gotten in to bed and laid down I felt her kick for the first time! It was the coolest thing. Since then I have felt her kicking a lot. Last night I was able to feel her with my hand on my tummy. Such an amazing feeling. Im starting to get a bump and most of my clothes don't fit. One day I will post bump pictures. I have only taken 2. One the day the embryos were placed in and one at 14 week. I was asked at work the other day if I was pregnant. That was weird. It took me a minute to answer. I was like humm yes I am. When you try to get pregnant for years and it finally happens you don't know how to answer those questions. It's like wow yes I am. Something I thought I'd never get to experience. Truly a miracle.

Baby jones update

2011-05-01T19:13:00.000-07:00

Baby Jones is doing great! Dr says I'm officially out of the first trimester!! I will be 13 weeks on Tuesday. We had our first OB appointment on Friday which was different because we've been seeing the specialist for so many years trying to have a baby and now some other Dr is going to get the credit for delivering the baby. Just seems weird. At our appointment the Dr did a quick ultrasound taking measurements and was done. It was fast and not what I was used to. They asked if we wanted the NT blood and ultrasound to check for downs. I looked at Brandon and said I don't care what the results would be I want another ultrasound, so yes! We got a 45 minute ultrasound and it was so fun to sit there and watch our baby. Baby just wanted to sleep though so they had me go to the bathroom, drink water and lay on my sides. At the end they told us it looks like we are having a little GIRL! They will confirm in 4 weeks but were pretty confident its a GIRL. Little Taytum Rae!. Brandon and I still don't agree on the spelling but that the name. What do you all think (the 3 of you who still read our blog) Brandon likes Taetum and I like Taytum. It finally hit me Friday afternoon as I was shopping for girl clothes ( yes I couldn't wait) that I am going to have a baby. That all of this isn't just a dream. I knew one day it would happen and now that it is happening it just seem so crazy. We truly feel so blessed for everything we have gone through to get to this point. Now if November will just hurry and get here!

April adventures

2011-05-01T18:49:00.001-07:00

April was a WAY busy month for us. Seemed like everything was crammed into one month. We Started off with the good old Clark County Fair and Rodeo which Brandon and I help out at. I'm in charge of one of the stages. Very stressful but fun. This year Brandon helped out in the cash office. Mixed in that week Brandon had a home track meet. Then we went back to work for a week, had another track meet then we hopped on a plane with our very good friends the Lewis' and headed for Hawaii for a week. They invited us to stay in their timeshare with them. We had a very good time but decided we don't take vacations, we take adventures. We had a good time exploring the island, searching for waterfalls (some we found, one we didn't after hiking down hill and then back up about 4 miles) and hanging out. We sure do have awesome friends to have invited us along and had a good time with. May is looking to be a busy month too. My sister Jordan is getting married next weekend and my little brother if receiving his eagle scout after all his hard work. Im so proud of both of them and when I get a chance to breath I'll blog about it.

Baby Jones @ 8wks 4days

2011-04-02T13:17:00.000-07:00

Here's a video of the heartbeat. You cant hear it but its the little flicker in the middle.

6 Years and them some

2011-03-25T09:09:00.001-07:00

6 years ago today I married my best friend! It has been an amazing 6 years and I'm so excited for the years to come. Brandon has a surprise date tonight and I cant wait to see what he has planned. But our real gift to each other was doing IVF again and our present will be here around Nov. 8 2011.

We feel so blessed that it worked this time. I did not want to go through all the shots and blood work all the time but I'm sure glad I did. Things just went perfect this time. Now keeping our fingers crossed they continue to keep it that way.

I love you Brandon. Thanks for all you do and have done for me.

February

2011-03-12T18:39:00.000-08:00

February turned out to be a very exciting month. Moapa took State in 3A basketball!! I'm going to be honest, I was not excited for basketball and was a little happy when they would lose and would hope they wouldn't make it to play offs. But I am glad that they won and although it was a very bust season, it was worth it to see the boys and coaches so excited.
Everyone knows when a sports team out here takes state, the whole town celebrates. Fire trucks, lights, sirens and a whole parade through town. Brandon drove home with me but wanted to get on the bus at the top of the freeway for all the fun. Whit and Kenzie ( who only went to a few games but they were the important games and the team won, can we say good luck charms??) wanted to come out and see all the hoopla, were excited to see how a small town supports their teams. So we ( Brandon me whit and kenzie) follow the bus from Vegas and we got off the freeway and the bus stopped so Brandon could get on. We hurry switch around Brandon to the bus and me to drive our fancy new car. I get in the fancy new car and go to drive and the car wont go. By now the other buses and all the fire trucks and all the people are driving away and we are stuck in the middle of the rode and I realize my car key is in Brandon's pocket on the bus! In my new stupid fancy car you don't put a key in the ignition it just has to be in the car to make it go. It will stay running if you get out but will not go. All this happened within like 2 minutes and there was nothing I could do. It was to loud for Brandon to hear his phone when I was calling and its not like they would have stopped the whole parade to bring me back my key. Thank goodness our friends the Lewis' saw us and stopped to help push my car out of the middle of the road and we met the team at the high school. Poor whit and kenzie missed out on the whole parade. Oh well looks like they will have to take state next year.
February was a good month and March should be too. Brandon started track and we have our 6 year anniversary.

Out with the old in with the new

2011-01-28T08:59:00.000-08:00

Dear Elantra,
I bought you with 24,000 miles on you in 2005 and we have had some Great adventures and some good accidents. You have been a good car and have saved my life 2 times. We felt it was time to put you to rest since we drove you into the ground putting 184,000 miles on you. Thanks for being such a great car but we had to replace you with.......................

THIS!!!!!

Dear Maxima,
You have big shoes to fill. You better live up to all your great reviews and we are excited to take you on MANY fun adventures. I hope all the pain and tears it took to get you was worth it because I NEVER want to buy a car again.

Little getaway

2010-11-07T14:57:00.001-08:00

At the end of October Brandon had a Thursday night football game so we took advantage of having a weekend to do something and headed to Park City. It was a MUCH needed getaway. We stayed at Hotel Park City which I highly recommend. It was so nice! We Just hung out, shopped and just spent time together which we don't get to do very often with our busy schedules. It was one of the best weekend in a long time.
( no sling on because we just got back from dinner and I realized we didn't take pictures at dinner. hopefully the dumb thing comes off for good on Nov. 24!! if not I'm going to go crazy.)

We went and wondered around Olympic Park. Pretty cool.Brandon wanted to ride the bobsled but it doesn't open until the end of December. Wait that's around my birthday, we might have to make another trip up there. Hint Hint Brandon if you read this!!!!

Now life is back to being busy. This past weekend Brandon's football team won division and now on to semi playoffs, and I had my big primary activity I was in charge of. I'm so bummed I forgot my camera. It turned out so cute. (thanks again Jordan Whitney and Kenzie!!!)
We are keeping busy and have fun.

October

2010-10-18T09:35:00.000-07:00

October has been a busy month for us. Brandon has been busy with football and I have been recovering from shoulder surgery. This past weekend my Grandma Gainey was out in pahrump with a bunch of her RV friends from El Monte so we made the trip over the hump to visit with them. It was fun seeing a lot of friends/family we haven't seen in a LONG time. They stay at a real cool RV park with a lake that has paddle boats. We had a blast. Its always fun to spend time with family.

Bruiser

2010-08-29T20:50:00.000-07:00

Bruise is ready for Pirate football!!

( this is the only piece of "clothing" he will own)

Lehman Caves!

2010-08-08T18:02:00.000-07:00

This weekend we took Zack, Whitney, Kenzie & Trevor camping up to Mt Wheeler/ Lehman Caves. We had a blast. We got there on Friday afternoon and started setting up camp and I got really sick. We think that I might have had slight altitude sickness. Headache, dizziness, nausea, vomiting etc, it was not fun. I wanted to die and come home. I felt so bad that I was laying in the tent and not doing anything. After about 3 hours I told Brandon I felt like we should leave. It started to rain and Brandon and the kids hurried and packed everything up, but the tent and air mattress I was on. I didn't want to leave because everyone was so excited and we drove 4 hours to get there. I was crying and all of the sudden I was started to feel better! I told Brandon I was feeling better and didn't want to leave. We went back and forth on whether we should leave or not. Brandon felt we should leave, but I was being a brat. I sat there and wouldn't get out of the tent so they couldn't take it down. Finally, I convinced Brandon that if I wasn't better in the morning we would leave. I'm SO glad I was better in the morning because we ended up having a fun time. I love spending time with my siblings and this time Trevor too.

If you look close you can see a double rainbow. Zack took this while Brandon was trying to get me out of the tent.

This is the campground we stayed at. I forgot to take pictures of our campsite.

We did the Lehman Cave tour. Not going to lie I was scared at first when they shut the door into the cave. I have a fear of being trapped.

We went on a hike to lake Teresa. It was a nice little hike. We wanted to do a longer one but didn't have time before our Cave tour. Friday Brandon also took everyone on another hike but they didn't know where my camera was so no pictures of that.

Saturday was also Kenzie's 12th Birthday!!! We had a little party for her.

All in all it was a great trip. Nice to get out of the heat and had a great time with family. Cant wait until the next camping adventure.

Bruisers new trick and Grandma Gainey's Visit

2010-07-23T19:04:00.001-07:00

I went in to my room and found Bruiser has a new trick. He waits until you put a brand new roll of tp on then takes it off the roll for you. Next he hides half of it under the bed. I was so mad! But he is so cute.

Grandma Gainey came to visit for a weekend to plan Zacks graduation trip and we took a break from planning to play the Wii. Grandma was so funny to watch. She was getting way into it. I had to make sure she had the wrist strap on so I didn't have to buy a new TV.

My new Kitchen

2010-07-23T18:30:00.000-07:00

In June I had this CRAZY idea to redo my kitchen. I couldn't rip everything out and start over so a few gallons of paint would have to do. We painted the walls yellow and I didn't like the look of the cabinets so thanks to all the DIY blogs I decided to paint them. Let me just say next time I'll will be more then willing to pay the thousand of dollars and have them done by someone else. Brandon told me I was crazy before we started and half way through I was believing him that I was. But I LOVE how they turned out. Pictures don't do it justice. I have always loved the old country look so that's what I went with. I forgot to take pictures of the whole kitchen before I started.

This is what all the cabinets looked like to start with.

Looks like I need to organize.

Paint drying then it started to pour and only lasted 5 minutes. I was so mad.

The finished project!

Probably one of my favorite thing. I found this way cool frame at an antique shop but it was broken. I took it to Grandpa and he fixed it for me. Now I have a cute magnet board to put pictures and you all know how much I LOVE picture! If you send me one this is where it will be displayed.(hint hint, send'em my way!)

Next project: the guest bathroom!

June Vacation

2010-06-07T18:30:00.000-07:00

Brandon and I took a trip down to Santa Monica to hang out by the beach and hit up a Dodger vs Braves game. All in all it was a way fun trip except for the stupid drunk Mexicans at the ball game who perfected the "f" word and spilt beer on Brandon (lets just say Lacey wasn't to happy with that). Our good friends the Francoms and the Phillipenass went down too. Its always fun going on vacations with good company. Hopefully this was the first of a few trips this summer. Maybe we'll go camping next.

Wedding weekend

2010-05-09T20:04:00.001-07:00

Brandon's sister Brianne married Robert this weekend in Vegas. It was a very beautiful wedding and we are so happy for them. We also decided to make a weekend get away out of it and stayed at Harrahs hotel in a nice suite. Congrats Brianne and Robert!!!

Happy Mother's Day

2010-05-09T18:28:00.000-07:00

Happy Mother's Day to all the amazing Mothers out there!

This is a day that I dread every year, but I am thankful to all of you Mother's who are wonderful examples to me and I know one day I will get to enjoy the title of Mother.

Our First 5 Years of Forever!!

2010-04-04T13:15:00.001-07:00

Brandon and I hit our 5 year mark of marriage on March 25! It has been an amazing, fun, trying, growing together and learning 5 years. We have been through some things we never thought we'd have to deal with, had some Awesome vacation, watched some highs and lows of Brandon's coaching adventures, lost some very important family members and young friends/ students. We have grown closer together and have learned that TOGETHER we can make it through anything!!! We are excited to see what the next 5+ years has to bring us.

Brandon: I love you more than you will ever know. Thanks for sticking by me and being there with me through my lowest times. I love you so much and am thankful for amazing man you are. Thanks for all you do for me. I love you Babe!!!

New addition

2010-01-31T14:33:00.000-08:00

Remember my post about patience? Well we decided to test it out with this:

Meet Bruiser!! He a 9 week old Maltese and they say he will only get to be about 3lbs!! So far he has been a great dog. We have had him for a week and it has been an adjustment. I'm not really a dog person but i just love little Bruiser!

2010

2010-01-01T18:55:00.000-08:00

Everywhere in nature we are taught the lessons of patience and waiting. We want things a long time before we get them, and the fact that we want them a long time makes them all the more precious when they come.
~Joseph F. Smith

Patience: What Im hoping to learn this year.

Christmas 2009

2010-01-01T16:59:00.000-08:00

Christmas this year was a hard but good one being the first Christmas year without Grandma. We all had a wonderful time being with family and doing what Grandma would have wanted us to do.

Breakfast was really hard for me this year. I took my Grandmas place and helped my mom cook the ebelskivers. I know Grandma was right there helping us and adding her special touch to everything.

Then there was this. This was my Grandmas that her brother brought back from his mission in New Zealand. It is small neck pendant in the form of a human fetus, used by the Maori of New Zealand as a fertility symbol. Usually carved of green nephrite or a jade like stone called pounamu that is found along the western coast of the South Island, hei tikis normally are worn only by women. The object is believed to possess magical powers that increase as it is passed on from generation to generation. Aunt Tami happened when this was given to Grandma! With what Brandon and I are going through, Grandpa thought it should go to us, and no one else wants the "powers" of it right now!

On the 26th Brandon's parents took us all to see the Lion King. It was AMAZING!! We loved it. I didn't take any pictures but when I get copies I'll post them.

Thanks to all for our families for a wonderful Christmas and all the memories that were made. We love you all!!

I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year!!

2009-12-25T21:16:00.001-08:00

I'm Spending Christmas With Jesus Christ This Year!
I see the countless Christmas trees
Around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars
reflecting on the snow.

The sight is so spectacular
Please wipe away a tear
For I 'm spending Christmas
With Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs
That people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
With the Christmas choir up here.

For I have no words to tell you
The joy their voices bring
For it is beyond description
To hear an angel sing.

I know how much you miss me
For I feel your breaking heart...
But through our memories so dear
We're never far apart.

I can't tell you of the Splendor
Or the peace here in this place.
Can you just imagine Christmas
With our Savior face to face?

I'll ask him to light your spirit
As I tell him of your love.
So then pray for one another
As you lift your eyes above.

So please let your hearts be joyful
And let your spirit sing.
For I'm spending Christmas in Heaven
And I'm walking with the King.

21 Years

2009-12-09T10:11:00.001-08:00

21 years ago on December 9th 1988, this awesome guy, my Great Grandpa Waters did his first live sealing and made

This family, a FOREVER family

in this temple!

And look what it has become!

Thanks Mom and Dad for making the choice to become a forever family! I love you guys so much!!!!!!

Christmas Tree

2009-11-29T12:49:00.000-08:00

On Friday, our good friends the Lewis' invited us to go cut Christmas trees with them. We went up around Caliente. The permit was a whole $4! We got a beautiful tree that at a Christmas tree lot would have been around $80. We had a great time hunting for the perfect trees and shooting. Thanks Lewis' for inviting us!!!

Crazy Zack!!!

2009-11-29T12:48:00.000-08:00

For my little brother, Zacks birthday he wanted to go ride the rides on top of the Stratosphere. He is one crazy kid and rode them all a few times. Brandon and I were chicken and just watched. Happy Late 17th Birthday Zack!!!

What a weekend

2009-11-23T17:53:00.000-08:00

Well we went up to Reno to play in the state football game and I'm very sad to say we didn't win. It was a hard to see the boys so upset. We have won the past 2 years and was hoping for a 3-peat. The season was fun and now its on to basketball!

Happy big 50 Dad!!!

2009-10-31T16:35:00.000-07:00

Last weekend we surprised my Dad with a party at TGI Fridays for his 50th birthday. My Grandma Gainey and Aunt Michelle came from CA, Brandon and Lindsey from St. George and the rest of us and Grandpa Waters all met up at Fridays and my mom and Dad showed up thinking they were going to have a nice quiet date night but to his surprise we were all there. It was great! He had no idea. It was so much fun to spend a big birthday for my dad with family.

I love my Dad so much. He's such an awesome person and does so much for his family. We love our Dad so much and are thankful he's ours.

Our pictures

2009-10-31T15:36:00.000-07:00

Here are some of my favorites. There were so many good ones I had a hard time choosing just these.

Sneak peek...

2009-10-23T11:42:00.000-07:00

Brandon and I had pictures done yesterday and here is one of them. I cant wait to see the rest. We had a good time and Korindi is so creative. She found the frame in the dirt and it just happened to match what we were wearing. I would not have thought to use the frame like she did. I will post more pictures when I get them.

Our Weekend

2009-10-18T19:39:00.000-07:00

This past Saturday Brandon and I finally got away for the day and spent some much needed good quality time together. With the recent failed IVF cycle(will blog about when the time is right), we really needed to spend time with just the 2 of us. This is a very busy time of year for Brandon and Saturday is usually his day to sit and watch hours of football and do nothing but he gave that up and took me to Zion. The weather was awesome and there went to many people there. We went on 4 hikes ,which we are both feeling the effects of today. Thanks babe for the wonderful day and I look forward to more of them.

For my Birthday...

2009-10-11T19:56:00.000-07:00

This is where I get to go!
Im so excited! Brandon said that he will take me this year even if something with Basketball comes up he will still take me. Sorry MVHS basketball, this year I get him. I bug him about going all the time and with Disney's promo this year I get in free! What away to spend the big 25 birthday. Now If December 29th will hurry and get here. Who ever would like to join is more than welcome to.

Its someones BIRTHDAY!!!

2009-09-18T08:42:00.001-07:00

Today is Brandon's birthday!!! He probably wont read this but I want everyone to know what an amazing husband he is! I couldn't be more happy. He takes such good care of me and always puts me first( even through football, basketball and track seasons). I'm so proud of him and the things he does. I love going to his coaching events to support him. We have had our hard times but he always makes sure I know he will always be by my side. I am so thankful that he honors his priesthood and has been able to give me some amazing blessings. Brandon, I love you and am so thankful you're mine!!! HAPPY 27th BIRTHDAY!

Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month

2009-09-05T18:49:00.000-07:00

September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness month. Lets spread the word and make more women aware of this "silent killer". With the recent passing of my Grandma who was taken from us because of Ovarian Cancer, I want to help other women know the sign and symptoms. Please take the time to read through the symptoms and educate yourself on this horrible form of cancer. If you would like I have fact/symptoms cards that would fit in your wallet.

Join the hundreds across the nation wearing TEAL to support National Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month. TEAL is the ovarian cancer community’s color and serves as a reminder that ovarian cancer is the deadliest of all the cancers of the female reproductive system and a leading cause of cancer death among women.

Symptoms

Even in its early stages ovarian cancer has symptoms. Research indicates that 95 percent of women with ovarian cancer had symptoms and 90 percent of women experienced symptoms with early-stage ovarian cancer. Symptoms vary from woman to woman and many times depend on the location of the tumor and its impact on the surrounding organs. Many of the symptoms mimic other conditions such as irritable bowel syndrome.

The Gynecologic Cancer Foundation, the Society of Gynecologic Oncologists and the American Cancer Society, with significant support from the Alliance formed a consensus statement on ovarian cancer. The Ovarian Cancer National Alliance has endorsed the consensus statement, which was announced in June 2007.

The statement follows:

Historically ovarian cancer was called the “silent killer” because symptoms were not thought to develop until the chance of cure was poor. However, recent studies have shown this term is untrue and that the following symptoms are much more likely to occur in women with ovarian cancer than women in the general population.

These symptoms include:

Bloating
Pelvic or abdominal pain
Difficulty eating or feeling full quickly
Urinary symptoms (urgency or frequency)

Women with ovarian cancer report that symptoms are persistent and represent a change from normal for their bodies. The frequency and/or number of such symptoms are key factors in the diagnosis of ovarian cancer. Several studies show that even early stage ovarian cancer can produce these symptoms.

Women who have these symptoms almost daily for more than a few weeks should see their doctor, preferably a gynecologist. Prompt medical evaluation may lead to detection at the earliest possible stage of the disease. Early stage diagnosis is associated with an improved prognosis.

Several other symptoms have been commonly reported by women with ovarian cancer. These symptoms include fatigue, indigestion, back pain, pain with intercourse, constipation and menstrual irregularities. However, these other symptoms are not as useful in identifying ovarian cancer because they are also found in equal frequency in women in the general population who do not have ovarian cancer.

Please wear TEAL and help spread the word!

Nothing to exciting

2009-09-05T18:18:00.000-07:00

Nothing to exciting has been going on. We went to Enterpriese for the 24 of July rodeo, we've hung out at the lake and went to a boxing match where we sat ring side. Now that football has started we really wont be doing much but I really love football season so I'm ok with that.

Grandmas Weekend

2009-08-05T20:13:00.000-07:00

I know I already posted about Grandma's passing but there are some thing I want to keep for my memories.
This past weekend was my Grandma Waters funeral. While it was very hard, it was a good week. I was able to take the week off work and spend alot of time with my family. Thursday was the service in Henderson. It went really well. My Grandma looked very peaceful and beautiful.
After the service we had a luncheon and was able to spend time with friends and family who had traveled to be there. On the way home Brandon and I were talking and he said something that has really helped me get through this. He said" you know how your Grandpa went on a mission after he and your Grandma were married and she waited 2 years for him, well now your Grandma is on her mission and she is getting everything ready for your Grandpa to join her in heaven." I was like WOW! thats an amazing way of thinking of it. Its so true.

On Friday all my family in Henderson started to make their way to Idaho. That is where my Grandparents choose to be their final resting place. On the way up Brandon and I met up with my Dad, Grandpa, Kenzie and Grandma. Yes Grandma. When Grandpa was making the arrangements to get Grandma to Idaho, I'm not totally sure how it all came about, but flying her would have cost over $1000.00. So, the funeral home suggested a U-Haul, but Grandma deserved better and they asked if anyone in the family had a SUV that would fit a casket. Measurements were taken of my moms Yukon XL and it was a perfect match. So my Grandpa was able to make Grandma's the final drive to Idaho with her. On one of our gas up stops I was talking to my dad and Grandpa and told them what Brandon had said and we stood there and cried because we know its true.

We all made it to Idaho safe and had a beautiful service which my Grandpa spoke and did amazing! I don't know I would be able to do something like that. Singing was hard enough! We buried Grandma at the Grant Central Cemetery. I do wish she was closer to us, but she is with a lot of her family. Grandma's flowers were a little more colorful then you would normally see on a casket, but each flower had a special meaning. On Mother's Day every year my Grandma wore a crosage that had 5 flowers with 2 different colors, 3 for her girls and 2 for her sons so it was only right that her final flowers carried on that. My Mom and aunt Tami did a beautiful job making sure it was done right with, one red for Grandpa, two yellow for her sons Jeff and Jerry, three purple for her daughters Tami, Tonya, and Tedene, 6 blue for her grandsons Brandon, Brad, Zack, Trevor, Stryder, and Soren, 12 pink for her granddaughters Taryn, Lacey, Katie, Lauren, Jordan, Hannah, Whitney, Amanda, Mackenzie, Sarah, Emma, and Shelby, and one white for the great grandbaby on the way.

I have so many wonderful memories of my grandma and am going to truly miss her, but I know its only a short time until I see her again. I love you the most Grandma.

Grandma Waters

2009-07-27T01:08:00.001-07:00

Yesterday was a very hard day. My wonderful Grandma Waters passed away after fighting cancer. I'm still a little shocked that she is gone. I'm waiting to wake up from a bad dream. She was diagnosed with a rare and mean form of ovarian cancer just a little over a month ago. I'm so sad that she is gone but glad she didn't have to fight for a long time. She is no longer in pain and is perfect (hot pink toe nail and all). I'm am so thankful for the gospel and eternal families. Just knowing that we WILL see her again makes these hard times a little easier. She was an awesome example to her family and friends. She is going to be missed by so many. Grandma, I love you so much! Thanks for always being there for me and my family. We promise to take care of Grandpa. Thanks for all the wonderful memories. Remember we love you the most!

We're Back!

2009-07-07T14:46:00.000-07:00

We are back from our trip but Im to tired to do a full recap of the trip so this will have to do for now.

June happenings

2009-06-25T20:17:00.000-07:00

In June, Greta came out for work and we were able to meet the 2 cute girls and have dinner with her. I sure miss her and wished she lived closer. Love you Greta!!!!

Last weekend Zack was in his first longdrive and closest to the pin comp in St. George. He did good for his first one and won over $200 worth of stuff. Good Job Z-MAN!!

We also went to dinner with Brandon and Lindsey while up there. I dont like how I look in the picture so I wont post it. It was a fun time though. We are also off to PA and BOSTON on Tuesday!!! Cant wait!

A little of what we have been going through

2009-06-06T22:31:00.000-07:00

I have been debating if I should publish this post or not. I have started this several time and end up deleting it because I don't want the "oh I sorry's" but I feel maybe its time to share.

Brandon and I have been trying to start our family for almost 2 years and have turned to Dr's for some help. We have had failed clomid cycles, a very hard failed IUI, surgery that we got no answers and now we are looking into doing IVF. I found the article below and it sums up all my feelings. This isn't meant to be a poor me or pitty party on my part, I would just like to let you all in on a little of what we have been, and are going through.

Infertility Etiquette By Vita Alligood

Chances are, you know someone who is struggling with infertility. More than five million people of childbearing age in the United States experience infertility. Yet, as a society, we are woefully uninformed about how to best provide emotional support for our loved ones during this painful time.

Infertility is, indeed, a very painful struggle. The pain is similar to the grief over losing a loved one, but it is unique because it is a recurring grief. When a loved one dies, he isn't coming back. There is no hope that he will come back from the dead. You must work through the stages of grief, accept that you will never see this person again, and move on with your life.

The grief of infertility is not so cut and dry. Infertile people grieve the loss of the baby that they may never know. They grieve the loss of that baby who would have had mommy's nose and daddy's eyes. But, each month, there is the hope that maybe that baby will be conceived after all. No matter how hard they try to prepare themselves for bad news, they still hope that this month will be different. Then, the bad news comes again, and the grief washes over the infertile couple anew. This process happens month after month, year after year. It is like having a deep cut that keeps getting opened right when it starts to heal.

As the couple moves into infertility treatments, the pain increases while the bank account depletes. Most infertility treatments involve using hormones, which alter the user's moods. (That statement is like calling a lion a cat-my husband would tell you that the side effect is insanity!) The tests are invasive and embarrassing to both parties, and you feel like the doctor has taken over your bedroom. And for all of this discomfort, you pay a lot of money. Infertility treatments are expensive, and most insurance companies do not cover the costs. So, in addition to the pain of not conceiving a baby each month, the couple pays out anywhere from $300 to five figures, depending upon the treatment used.

A couple will eventually resolve the infertility problem in one of three ways:

They will eventually conceive a baby.
They will stop the infertility treatments and choose to live without children.
They will find an alternative way to parent, such as by adopting a child or becoming a foster parent.

Reaching a resolution can take years, so your infertile loved ones need your emotional support during this journey. Most people don't know what to say, so they wind up saying the wrong thing, which only makes the journey so much harder for their loved ones. Knowing what not to say is half of the battle to providing support.

Don't Tell Them to Relax

Everyone knows someone who had trouble conceiving but then finally became pregnant once she "relaxed." Couples who are able to conceive after a few months of "relaxing" are not infertile. By definition, a couple is not diagnosed as "infertile" until they have tried unsuccessfully to become pregnant for a full year. In fact, most infertility specialists will not treat a couple for infertility until they have tried to become pregnant for a year. This year weeds out the people who aren't infertile but just need to "relax." Those that remain are truly infertile.

Comments such as "just relax" or "try going on a cruise" create even more stress for the infertile couple, particularly the woman. The woman feels like she is doing something wrong when, in fact, there is a good chance that there is a physical problem preventing her from becoming pregnant.

These comments can also reach the point of absurdity. As a couple, my husband and I underwent two surgeries, numerous insemination's, hormone treatments, and four years of poking and prodding by doctors. Yet, people still continued to say things like, "If you just relaxed on a cruise . . ." Infertility is a diagnosable medical problem that must be treated by a doctor, and even with treatment, many couples will NEVER successfully conceive a child. Relaxation itself does not cure medical infertility.

Don't Minimize the Problem

Failure to conceive a baby is a very painful journey. Infertile couples are surrounded by families with children. These couples watch their friends give birth to two or three children, and they watch those children grow while the couple goes home to the silence of an empty house. These couples see all of the joy that a child brings into someone's life, and they feel the emptiness of not being able to experience the same joy.

Comments like, "Just enjoy being able to sleep late . . . .travel . . etc.," do not offer comfort. Instead, these comments make infertile people feel like you are minimizing their pain. You wouldn't tell somebody whose parent just died to be thankful that he no longer has to buy Father's Day or Mother's Day cards. Losing that one obligation doesn't even begin to compensate for the incredible loss of losing a parent. In the same vein, being able to sleep late or travel does not provide comfort to somebody who desperately wants a child.

Don't Say There Are Worse Things That Could Happen

Along the same lines, don't tell your friend that there are worse things that she could be going through. Who is the final authority on what is the "worst" thing that could happen to someone? Is it going through a divorce? Watching a loved one die? Getting raped? Losing a job?

Different people react to different life experiences in different ways. To someone who has trained his whole life for the Olympics, the "worst" thing might be experiencing an injury the week before the event. To someone who has walked away from her career to become a stay-at-home wife for 40 years, watching her husband leave her for a younger woman might be the "worst" thing. And, to a woman whose sole goal in life has been to love and nurture a child, infertility may indeed be the "worst" thing that could happen.

People wouldn't dream of telling someone whose parent just died, "It could be worse: both of your parents could be dead." Such a comment would be considered cruel rather than comforting. In the same vein, don't tell your friend that she could be going through worse things than infertility.

Don't Say They Aren't Meant to Be Parents

One of the cruelest things anyone ever said to me is, "Maybe God doesn't intend for you to be a mother." How incredibly insensitive to imply that I would be such a bad mother that God felt the need to divinely sterilize me. If God were in the business of divinely sterilizing women, don't you think he would prevent the pregnancies that end in abortions? Or wouldn't he sterilize the women who wind up neglecting and abusing their children? Even if you aren't religious, the "maybe it's not meant to be" comments are not comforting. Infertility is a medical condition, not a punishment from God or Mother Nature.

Don't Ask Why They Aren't Trying IVF

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a method in which the woman harvests multiple eggs, which are then combined with the man's sperm in a petri dish. This is the method that can produce multiple births. People frequently ask, "Why don't you just try IVF?" in the same casual tone they would use to ask, "Why don't you try shopping at another store?"

There are many reasons why a couple would choose not to pursue this option. Here are a few of them.

IVF is Expensive with Low Odds
One cycle of IVF is very expensive.
With all of the hype in the news, many people assume that IVF is a sure thing when, in fact, the odds of success for each cycle are low.
Most couples cannot afford to try for one month, much less for multiple times.
Considering that it also costs a significant amount of money to adopt a baby, many couples opt for the "sure thing" rather then risking their money on much lower odds.

IVF is Physically Taxing

Undergoing IVF treatments is very rigorous. The woman must inject shots into her thigh daily to cause her ovaries to superovulate. The drugs used are very taxing on the woman, and they can cause her to be become extremely emotional.

IVF Raises Ethical Issues

Ironically, couples who undergo IVF to become parents may have to selectively abort one or more fetuses if multiple eggs are fertilized. Many couples cannot bring themselves to abort a baby when they have worked so hard to become parents. If the couple chooses not to selectively abort, they run the risk of multiple births.

Don't Offer Unsolicited Opinions If They Are Trying IVF

On the flip side of the coin, don't offer unsolicited advice to your friends who do choose to try IVF. For many couples, IVF is the only way they will ever give birth to a baby. This is a huge decision for them to make, for all of the reasons I outlined above. If the couple has resolved any ethical issues, don't muddy the waters. IVF is a gray area in many ethical circles, and many of our moral leaders don't yet know how to answer the ethical questions that have arisen from this new technology.

If the couple has resolved these issues already, you only make it harder by raising the ethical questions again. Respect their decision, and offer your support. If you can't offer your support due to ethical differences of opinion, then say nothing.

A couple who chooses the IVF route has a hard, expensive road ahead, and they need your support more than ever. The hormones are no cakewalk, and the financial cost is enormous. Your friend would not be going this route if there were an easier way, and the fact that she is willing to endure so much is further proof of how much she truly wants to parent a child. The hormones will make her more emotional, so offer her your support and keep your questions to yourself.

Don't Play Doctor

Once your infertile friends are under a doctor's care, the doctor will run them through numerous tests to determine why they aren't able to conceive. There a numerous reasons that a couple may not be able to conceive. Here are a few of them:

Blocked fallopian tubes
CystsEndometriosis
Low hormone levels
Low "normal form" sperm count
Low progesterone level
Low sperm count
Low sperm motility
Thin uterine walls
Or Unexplained infertility(what we have at this point)

Infertility is a complicated problem to diagnose, and reading an article or book on infertility will not make you an "expert" on the subject. Let your friends work with their doctor to diagnose and treat the problem. Your friends probably already know more about the causes and solutions of infertility than you will ever know.

You may feel like you are being helpful by reading up on infertility, and there is nothing wrong with learning more about the subject. The problem comes when you try to "play doctor" with your friends. They already have a doctor with years of experience in diagnosing and treating the problem. They need to work with and trust their doctor to treat the problem. You only complicate the issue when you throw out other ideas that you have read about. The doctor knows more about the causes and solutions; let your friends work with their doctor to solve the problem.

Don't Be Crude

It is appalling that I even have to include this paragraph, but some of you need to hear this-Don't make crude jokes about your friend's vulnerable position. Crude comments like "I'll donate the sperm" or "Make sure the doctor uses your sperm for the insemination" are not funny, and they only irritate your friends.

Don't Complain About Your Pregnancy

This message is for pregnant women-Just being around you is painful for your infertile friends. Seeing your belly grow is a constant reminder of what your infertile friend cannot have. Unless an infertile women plans to spend her life in a cave, she has to find a way to interact with pregnant women. However, there are things you can do as her friend to make it easier.

The number one rule is DON'T COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR PREGNANCY. I understand from my friends that, when you are pregnant, your hormones are going crazy and you experience a lot of discomfort, such as queasiness, stretch marks, and fatigue. You have every right to vent about the discomforts to any one else in your life, but don't put your infertile friend in the position of comforting you.

Your infertile friend would give anything to experience the discomforts you are enduring because those discomforts come from a baby growing inside of you. When I heard a pregnant woman complain about morning sickness, I would think, "I'd gladly throw up for nine straight months if it meant I could have a baby." When a pregnant woman would complain about her weight gain, I would think, "I would cut off my arm if I could be in your shoes."

I managed to go to baby showers and hospitals to welcome my friends' new babies, but it was hard. Without exception, it was hard. Stay sensitive to your infertile friend's emotions, and give her the leeway that she needs to be happy for you while she cries for herself. If she can't bring herself to hold your new baby, give her time. She isn't rejecting you or your new baby; she is just trying to work her way through her pain to show sincere joy for you. The fact that she is willing to endure such pain in order to celebrate your new baby with you speaks volumes about how much your friendship means to her.

Don't Treat Them Like They Are Ignorant

For some reason, some people seem to think that infertility causes a person to become unrealistic about the responsibilities of parenthood. I don't follow the logic, but several people told me that I wouldn't ache for a baby so much if I appreciated how much responsibility was involved in parenting.

Let's face it-no one can fully appreciate the responsibilities involved in parenting until they are, themselves, parents. That is true whether you successfully conceived after one month or after 10 years. The length of time you spend waiting for that baby does not factor in to your appreciation of responsibility. If anything, people who have been trying to become pregnant longer have had more time to think about those responsibilities. They have also probably been around lots of babies as their friends started their families.

Perhaps part of what fuels this perception is that infertile couples have a longer time to "dream" about what being a parent will be like. Like every other couple, we have our fantasies-my child will sleep through the night, would never have a tantrum in public, and will always eat his vegetables. Let us have our fantasies. Those fantasies are some of the few parent-to-be perks that we have-let us have them. You can give us your knowing looks when we discover the truth later.

Don't Gossip About Your Friend's Condition

Infertility treatments are very private and embarrassing, which is why many couples choose to undergo these treatments in secret. Men especially are very sensitive to letting people know about infertility testing, such as sperm counts. Gossiping about infertility is not usually done in a malicious manner. The gossipers are usually well-meaning people who are only trying to find out more about infertility so they can help their loved ones.

Regardless of why you are sharing this information with someone else, it hurts and embarrasses your friend to find out that Madge the bank teller knows what your husband's sperm count is and when your next period is expected. Infertility is something that should be kept as private as your friend wants to keep it. Respect your friend's privacy, and don't share any information that your friend hasn't authorized.

Don't Push Adoption (Yet)

Adoption is a wonderful way for infertile people to become parents. (As an adoptive parent, I can fully vouch for this!!) However, the couple needs to work through many issues before they will be ready to make an adoption decision. Before they can make the decision to love a "stranger's baby," they must first grieve the loss of that baby with Daddy's eyes and Mommy's nose. Adoption social workers recognize the importance of the grieving process. When my husband and I went for our initial adoption interview, we expected the first question to be, "Why do you want to adopt a baby?" Instead, the question was, "Have you grieved the loss of your biological child yet?" Our social worker emphasized how important it is to shut one door before you open another.

You do, indeed, need to grieve this loss before you are ready to start the adoption process. The adoption process is very long and expensive, and it is not an easy road. So, the couple needs to be very sure that they can let go of the hope of a biological child and that they can love an adopted baby. This takes time, and some couples are never able to reach this point. If your friend cannot love a baby that isn't her "own," then adoption isn't the right decision for her, and it is certainly not what is best for the baby.

Mentioning adoption in passing can be a comfort to some couples. (The only words that ever offered me comfort were from my sister, who said, "Whether through pregnancy or adoption, you will be a mother one day.") However, "pushing" the issue can frustrate your friend. So, mention the idea in passing if it seems appropriate, and then drop it. When your friend is ready to talk about adoption, she will raise the issue herself.

So, what can you say to your infertile friends? Unless you say "I am giving you this baby," there is nothing you can say that will erase their pain. So, take that pressure off of yourself. It isn't your job to erase their pain, but there is a lot you can do to lesson the load. Here are a few ideas.

Let Them Know That You Care

The best thing you can do is let your infertile friends know that you care. Send them cards. Let them cry on your shoulder. If they are religious, let them know you are praying for them. Offer the same support you would offer a friend who has lost a loved one. Just knowing they can count on you to be there for them lightens the load and lets them know that they aren't going through this alone.

Remember Them on Mother's Day (and Father's Day)

With all of the activity on Mother's Day, people tend to forget about women who cannot become mothers. Mother's Day is an incredibly painful time for infertile women. You cannot get away from it-There are ads on the TV, posters at the stores, church sermons devoted to celebrating motherhood, and all of the plans for celebrating with your own mother and mother-in-law.

Mother's Day is an important celebration and one that I relish now that I am a mother. However, it was very painful while I was waiting for my baby. Remember your infertile friends on Mother's Day, and send them a card to let them know you are thinking of them. They will appreciate knowing that you haven't "forgotten" them.

Support Their Decision to Stop Treatments

No couple can endure infertility treatments forever. At some point, they will stop. This is an agonizing decision to make, and it involves even more grief. Even if the couple chooses to adopt a baby, they must still first grieve the loss of that baby who would have had mommy's nose and daddy's eyes.

Once the couple has made the decision to stop treatments, support their decision. Don't encourage them to try again, and don't discourage them from adopting, if that is their choice. Once the couple has reached resolution (whether to live without children, adopt a child, or become foster parents), they can finally put that chapter of their lives behind them. Don't try to open that chapter again.

Great Grandma Waters

2009-05-30T10:37:00.000-07:00

On May 22 my Great Grandma Waters passed away in Idaho Falls ID. She live a long 92 years. She was married to my Great Grandpa for 74 years and 10 months. As sad as I am, it was a good thing. She has been fighting with Alzheimer's and dementia for the last few years. Heavenly Father decided that she fought long enough. I'm so happy for eternal families and knowing that I will be able to see her again.

While we were up in Idaho we were able to meet up with Brandon's last mission companion. They were AP's together. It was fun to get to hang out with him and his cute family. We went mini golfing ,rode go karts and the boys rode the buck-a-roo! Thanks Edstrom family for a fun time. Also thanks Uncle Pete and Aunt Darleen for a place to stay and all the wonderful food!!!

S'mores and Big thank you!

2009-05-17T19:59:00.000-07:00

For the past 3 weekends my wonderful sisters and brother have been helping Brandon at the track meets. I want them to know how much we appreciate their help. We couldn't have done with out you guys!!! Jordan, her friends Rowdy and Mikayla, Zack ,Whitney and Kenzie were all out here. After the meet we went to dinner at Inside scoop and than came home and built a fire in the empty lot next to us and made s'mores. It was so much fun to just hang out with all of them. Thanks Mom and Dad for letting them come out.

Fun times at the fair

2009-05-03T11:09:00.000-07:00

I know Im a little late but here are our fun fair pictures! My family was able to come out this year and it was so much fun even though it rained Saturday.

Our Summer Vacation

2009-04-08T11:49:00.000-07:00

Brandon & I decided to plan our summer vacation!
First we are going to fly on ones of these:

Land here:

Go to this cute town where the air smells like Chocolate!!

Then go here: (Boston)

Watch these!

Go here:
And watch these guys!
We cant wait until June 30!!!

4 Years

2009-03-25T20:16:00.000-07:00

4 years ago today Brandon and I were married in the temple!! It was the best day ever. We both have a busy week, so we celeabrated on Saturday. We ate at the California Pizza Kitchen, Brandon bought me new sunglasses and he is getting an Ipod. Here are a few pictures from the last 4 years. I Love you so dang much hunny!!!

Create

2009-03-06T19:03:00.000-08:00

My mother in law sent this. I really liked it.

I Just Love My Husband!

2009-02-28T10:13:00.000-08:00

"I just love my husband so dang much!" That's what I had to keep telling myself Thursday night at 11pm when I opened the dryer to an entire load of khaki's ruined because of a pen left in someones pocket. That's right the entire load (about $500 worth of clothes) and the inside of the dryer covered with black ink. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. After an hour and a trip to the store for nail polish remover I was able to use my dryer again. I wish I would have taken pictures but I was to mad. Now do I make Brandon do his own laundry or sew his pockets shut so this doesn't happen again.

Getting to know us better.

2009-02-15T21:11:00.000-08:00

I saw this and thought it was cute. I usually don't do these but with valentines days yesterday and our anniversary coming I thought what the heck.
♥ How long have you been together? Together 5 years in April. Married 4 years next month.
♥ How long did you know each other before you started dating? We met on a blind date and never looked back.
♥ Who asked who out? Well Brian Adams set us up on a blind date.
♥ How old are each of you? 26 and 24
♥ Whose siblings do/ did you see the most? about even
♥ Do you have any children together? Nope. Hopefully someday.
♥ What about pets? Our stupid fish that wont die. I love the dumb thing but am over it. Our Niece and Nephews LOVE it though so we have to keep it for them.
♥ Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?Well probable the one we are dealing with right now. We found out that trying to start a family isn't going to be very easy for us. Will go in to more detail at a later time.
♥ Did you ever go to the same school? Nope
♥ Are you from the same home town? Nope. Me Henderson, Him Moapa
♥ Who is the smartest? Well since Brandon is the only one with a college degree right now that would be him.
♥ Who is the most sensitive? me.
♥ Where do you eat out most as a couple? Our house. Living in a small town we don't have to many options.
♥ Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple? That would be Trinidad Tobago & Barbados
♥ Who has the craziest exes? Since Brandon says he doesn't have ex's (which I don't believe) I would say me.
♥ Who has the worst temper? That would be me!
♥ Who does the cooking? We like to cook together.
♥ Who is more social? Depends. We both can be.
♥ Who is the neat freak? I would say we both tend to be.
♥ Who is the more stubborn? That would be me!
♥ Who wakes up earlier? I tend to not before hitting snooze like 20 times. Brandon HATES when I do this.
♥ Where was your first date? Double date with Brian and Andrea. I was like 2 hours late. watched Drum line at the Scobles, made milkshakes, played Sorry, and went bowling.
♥ Who has the bigger family? Mine. I have 5 siblings and he has 3.
♥Do you get flowers often? Several times a year. He is so good to me.
♥ Who is more jealous? That would be me. Whenever we are out and I think another girl is checking him out I get pissed! Hey at least I admit it.
♥ How long did it take to get serious? Like 2 dates! hey when you know its right why wait. Really we didn't say we loved each other for like 4 months but We both knew where it was going sooner than that.
♥ Who eats more? he does.
♥ Who does/ did the laundry? Usually me but if I ask him he will
♥ Who’s better with the computer? he is
♥ Who drives when you are together? He does!
Where is your DREAM vacation for the two of you as a couple? We were lucky enough to take a dream vacation this past summer. We went back to part of Brandon's mission. We went to Trinidad Tobago and Barbados. It was amazing. My grandma and sister joined us.

Hope you enjoyed getting to know us better. Now If you read this, do it on your blog.

Pay It Forward

2009-02-12T19:22:00.000-08:00

I thought this was way cute so I stole this from Jolynn.

Being as how this is National Random Acts of Kindness Week, this is quite an appropriate time to do this post. I am now committed to sending something handmade to three people. You may have seen this on someone else's blog, but here's how it works:

Be one of the first three people to leave a comment, and I will send you something handmade in the next three months. You get to pay it forward by doing the same thing on your blog for three people. Once you leave a comment saying you're interested, you need to make a post on your blog within one day.

Think of how happy you can make someone by sending them something special made by you! Who's game?

movie night

2009-01-24T16:02:00.000-08:00

Life has been way crazy for us the last few weeks and Monday was the first day in forever we didn't do anything. We decided to have a movie night. We went to the store and got all kinds of junk food, rented a movie and took the mattress off the guest bed and watch movies. It was nice to relax and do nothing for once.

WOW I'm a slacker!

2009-01-01T20:09:00.000-08:00

Holy Cow I have alot of catching up to do. Im going to try to cram 3 weeks into one post.

First on the 17-20 I went with the basketball team down to Anaheim for a tourney. What was supposed to be a 5 hour trip ended up taking 31 or so hours!! 10 of those hour being stuck on i-15 in Victorville in the snow! It took 10 hours to go 4 miles. We took the school vans and the boys had snowball wars between the 2. The first 3 hours was fun but after that we were ready to get off the freeway but due to the snow, trucks jackknifed and the freeway being shut down there was no where for us to go. We call around trying to get hotel rooms but everyone else had the same idea and they were all booked. Thanks to my aunts friends who was willing to take in 13 high school kind and 4 adults. We had warm beds an amazing breakfast and the boys had places to plug in their cellphones and didnt have to sleep in the vans. Ben Sharon Alice & Eddie were awesome. Thanks so much.

Than we had Christmas eve and Brandons Parents house. We had a good dinner and the kids sang jingle bells. It was way cute. We stayed at our house that night and got up and went to my parents house for breakfast.

Every year Christmas morning is a big deal at my parents house. We all look forward to it all year long. My Mom makes sausage fondue and ebelskivers ( see picture below to see what they look like) they are amazing. Thanks mom and Grandma for all the hard work to make this such a special morning.

And then on Monday was my birthday and it started out with a freezing cold shower and so I called to get my water heater fixed at 7:30am and went on with my day thinking I would get a call back. My sisters and I went to St. George shopping and I everything on my list which NEVER happens. Then we went to Brandon Basketball game because the team had another tourney and we got home at about 4:00. My sister in law and nephews came to visit me and Kenzie went into my laundry room and found it flooded!! At this point I still hadnt heard anything back on getting my water heater fixed and now it was all over the place. So I called my home warranty company back and found out that no one could come fix it until Tuesday sometime in the afternoon maybe not until 5! I wasnt to happy but we got thru it and now I got a new water heater and I get to deal with the hassle of getting my laundry floor and walls repaired. Happy Birthday to me!!

My Sweet hunny

2008-12-02T20:40:00.000-08:00

Last Tuesday I was sitting at work when these flowers were delivered! This time of year my office gets all kinds of goodies from other offices so I just thought thats was what it was until the guy asked if a Lacey Jones was there. I immediately turned my head and said that was me! Who would be sending me flowers I asked myself. I opened the card and it said "I'm starting a tradition of giving you something after each sport I coach. It may not always be flowers, but this time it is. I don't know what I would do without you. I love you!" I started crying! It came at just the right time when I need something. This is so unlike Brandon. He always makes sure I know how much he loves me but this time he went the extra mile. Now I get 3 extra surprises a year. I love Brandon so dang much!! Thanks hb!!!!!!!

Football and Thanksgiving weekend

2008-11-29T20:21:00.000-08:00

Sorry this is so long I need to catch up.
First, Moapa Valley High School took state once again. This makes a back to back title. Its been 40 years since the school has done that. Im so happy for Brandon. All the film watching paid off.

For Thanksgiving we went to Orem Ut to Brandons sister house. We had alot of fun. Brooke had pumpkins from Halloween ( not carved) and Thanksgiving that she used to decorate and decided to have a pumpkin launch/ throwing contest. Behind her house is a canal so we went on her deck to see who could throw them the farthest. Brandon won the first round. Then Brandon and Don used a towel to launch the big huge pumpkins. It was alot of fun.

Friday night we all bundled up and went up to Salt Lake to see the lights at temple square. I had never been there to see the lights. It was so pretty but there was way too many people there. I highly recommend it but not on a Friday night. Oh and take some hot chocolate.

While all the family was together (which doesn't happen to often) we took a family picture. I learned how to use the timer function on my camera (which Brandon isn't to happy about now because that means more pictures of me and him) so we got everyone in place and I would push the button and run to get in the picture.

We had so much fun all being together. Thanks Brooke, Troy and Kate for letting us all stay at your house!!!

2008-11-17T21:48:00.000-08:00

4 years ago today Brandon took me up to Bootleg Canyon in Boulder City at a look out point looking out onto the Vegas Valley, had a little picnic and all my favorite foods, (crazy bread, Fuze banana colada and Chocolate covered strawberries), and made me the happiest person in the world by asking me to be his wife!!! He did such an amazing job keeping it a secret from me. I knew he was going to propose but I didnt know when. I thought he was going to wait until Christmas because I didnt want that. Im so lucky to have Brandon in my life and as my best friend forever and ever. I love him so dang much. HB, thanks so much for all you do for me. You have no idea how many times I thank heavenly father for sending you to me! I know I have been crazy these last few months and thanks for being there for me, for holding me when I cry and making me laugh when I need it. I cant wait to get home and spend time with you everyday. You make me want to be a better person and be the best I can. I LOVE YOU SO DANG MUCH!!!! please dont ever forget that! Love your HB!!!!

Bandon and Lindsey's Wedding!

2008-11-02T17:18:00.001-08:00

My brother Brandon and Lindsey got married on Saturday!! It was a very beautiful sealing and a fun reception. The weather was Perfect! They are so happy and in love its so cute. We are so happy to have Lindsey in our family. She's awesome! We love you both so much and are so happy for you guys.

I LOVED her flowers!

All of us Kids

The happy couple leaving

Cutest Boys

2008-10-24T08:56:00.000-07:00

Last week I took some picuters of my nephews for my sister in law. Since I'm going to be taking photography classes it was the perfect chance to practice. It also helped having the cutest models! Here are some of my favorites.

Our Weekend

2008-10-12T21:57:00.000-07:00

Saturday we went on a fun hike to White Domes in the Valley of Fire. The weather was so nice. I beg Brandon all the time to go hiking and this time he said we woukd go! I love Fall in the desert.

Who Loves Handbags?

2008-10-09T13:15:00.000-07:00

Check out this new website. They are launching on the 15th but you can enter to win a new purse. Check them out. Handbagplanet.com

Back to school!

2008-10-05T20:45:00.000-07:00

So I have decided that I'm going back to school! I am going to start taking photography courses. I have a supper nice camera (a canon 40d) that Brandon bought me for Christmas last year and I want to fully learn how to use it. I know how to turn it on and take pictures but I want to understand all the settings. So watch out I'm going to need models!

Colors

2008-10-04T19:24:00.000-07:00

So tonight I realized that my whole blog was done in GREEN! That's a huge sin out here because that is Virgin Valley colors. We are the Pirates and we are BLUE. With Brandon being a coach in almost every sport out here, I thought I'd better change! Now we wont get kicked out of town.

Brandon

2008-09-19T07:26:00.001-07:00

I started this on the 17th and got busy and forgot to finish it. I know I'm a bad wife. I just want Brandon to know how much I love him and I would be lost with out him! He is my best friend and eternal companion and so thankful for that. He treat me better than I deserve. He is the best! I look up to him so much. He just graduated college and teaches special ed & coach 3 sports! He has accomplished so much in the last few months. Hunny I love you so much and never for get that. Thanks for all you do for me! I'm so glad you are mine forever. Sorry for the times I'm a brat and drive you crazy. I know I'm not the easiest to get along with but some how you do it with a smile. Thanks again and I look forward to the rest of eternity with you!

Barbados

2008-09-14T19:33:00.001-07:00

So I done posting pictures of my trip. If you want to see more or hear more e-mail me.

Tobago- My new favorite place in the world!

2008-09-01T11:54:00.000-07:00

So Tobago is my new Favorite place in the world. Its everything I imagined a Caribbean vacation to be! The place we stayed at was right a private beach! It was so relaxing and peaceful. The only sad part was we were there the shortest amount of time. Hopefully we can go back there soon.

This was the plane we flew from island to island on. Kind of scary at first

Look close and you can see that the sign says "mini mart". Yes this was a real mini mart. People just set up stands where ever and that how the make their money. They sell fresh fruit and whatever else they might think you will buy.

Grandma & Jordan on their balcony.

Brandon & I on our balcony. Yes that's the awesome view we had! It was so beautiful.

Another view from our balcony. The water looks farther away than it really was. You could throw a rock and hit the water.

We stopped and had lunch at this awesome place. It was on top of a little mountain and this was the view. They had one of those infinity pools you could swim in and they would bring you lunch. People pay big bucks for views like this but the best part was we didn't! I've never seen anything so amazing.

Eating dinner at the restaurant on the beach by our place we stayed at.

Trinidad

2008-08-29T09:15:00.000-07:00

Ok there are so many pictures I dont know where to start. Im going to do posts by island starting with Trinidad. Brandon spent the most time here. It it not a tourist island and is not very safe. We were there from Aug 10-13. We drove around alot and were able to see some really neat things. We also met up with a family Brandon was close with. It was so fun to meet them and we were able to go to dinner.

Bake & Shark! Yes I ate shark and it was so dang good!

Jordan Grandma and I enjoying Apple J and shark

Brandon and I at a look out point in Trinidad.

This bamboo tree was HUGE! It was so awesome.

A real banana tree and coconut tree. There were vendors all over selling coconuts. They use a huge machete to cut the top off and you drink the water inside. Its supposed to be supper good for you. They weren't brown like i thought coconuts were. These were green.

The flowers there were amazing!

The family Brandon worked with. They took us to an Indian restaurant and we ate Roti. Roti is similar to pita bread. You tear and rip the roti and mix it with rice, different meats-chicken, lamb and beef- in curry sauce. You eat it by mixing it together with your hands, no silverware! They LOVE curry so everything was spicy. Oh and the drinks are fresh and I mean fresh fruit juices. They are fresh squeezed and nothing added. Yummy I loved them.

These were what alot of the houses looked liked. Families would live in these tiny places. WoW Im lucky for what I do have.

Goofing off at Fort George.

These were just a few of the high lights from Trinidad.

West Indies Trip part 1 almost

2008-08-23T13:04:00.000-07:00

In the airport getting ready to leave . We look pretty good for it being 10pm and being up since 5am.
(note: first up close picture of lacey with no braces!!!)

Ok sorry I havent posted about our big trip, the past 2 weeks have been so busy. Hopefully friday I will be able to post pictures and stories.

Update

2008-08-01T10:48:00.001-07:00

Ok now that I have all the July birthdays posted, I can update everyone on the happenings of the Jones family.

This weekend we have our 2 cute little nephews staying with us while their mom and dad are on a much needed vacation. They get back on Sunday and then our fun week begins.

Here is how our week is going to go

Monday: just normal going to work. and start packing. not to bad

Tuesday: Brandon has to go to the CCSD offices to get all his paper work done for the up coming school year. Lacey just work. still pack. Still not too bad.

Wednesday: Lacey gets her braces OFF!!!!!! finally after 2 & 1/2 years they are coming off!! I can wait. Wednesday night Lacey has mutual for young women's. Brandon has to take 2 tests and has to go up to the weight room for football.

Thursday: Last day of work and get ready for our trip. & Kenzie Birthday!!

Friday: Brandon finally done with student teaching! He has been teaching at an elementary school and has learned that the 3rd grade is not for him. Chad and Emilys wedding. Sometime today we have to get last minute stuff for our trip.

Saturday: Little Lauren is getting Married!! I cant believe it. I'm so happy for her. Also we have to be all pack.

Finally @ 10:45 all my stress should be gone because I'll be on a plane with Brandon Jordan and my Grandma, heading back to part of Brandon's mission!!! We are lucky enough to be able to go see where he spent 2 years serving the church. For those who don't know where he went, it was called the West Indies mission. We get to go to Trinidad, Tobago and Barbados. I'm so excited!! I promise pictures and stories when we get back!

Brandons B-day

2008-08-01T10:27:00.003-07:00

WOW July is birthday month! Brandon, my big brother, had a b-day on the 24! He is the best big brother anyone could ask for. When we were in high school we did alot together. I know he hated his little sister tagging along but I'm glad I got to. Some of my favorite memories are of the stupid funny thing we did. And let me tell you there were alot of them. We also would stay up really late and just talk about anything. My parents would get mad we were up so late but we had some of the best talks. We could tell each other anything. As we have gotten older we still are really close and love to give each other a hard time. I love him so much and want him to be happy. Hopefully one day he will find a good girl and settle down. I love you Brandon!

Another Birthday!

2008-08-01T10:26:00.000-07:00

My WONDERFUL Grandma had a birthday on the 26th! She is such a sweet person and wants the best for all her family. Every Sunday she has all of her family, sometimes up to like 30 people if we are all there, and makes dinner for everyone! That alot of cooking to do. Grandpa helps too. Grandma always has something to make you feel better. If you get a cut or scratch just go to Grandmas Surgery and she'll make it all better. I love you so much Grandma! Thanks for all you do for our family. Is hard living farther away and not getting to come to dinner as often as before but know we still love you and are thankful to have you as a Grandma!!

Happy Birthday MOM

2008-07-20T20:11:00.001-07:00

Today is my moms birthday! I love her so much and she has always been there for me. She has listen to me when I needed her the most. She is an amazing women who has brought 6 kids into this world. She is everything and more that you would want a mom to be. She has always done without so her kids didnt have to. She is my best friend. I love when I get to spend time with her. Now that I dont live close I realize how much I took that for granted. I know its only an hour away but sometimes it seems like longer. Mom, I love you so much and thanks for all you have done for me. I wouldnt be the person I am today if it wasnt for you. You have alway been there and been my biggest cheerleader and supported me in all my decisions. Thanks. I hope when I a mom I can be half as good as you! I Love You so much!!!

Happy Birthday Grandpa!

2008-07-20T19:51:00.000-07:00

Last week on the 17th was my Grandpa's birthday! I have the best Grandpa in the world! He is such an amazing person and example to me. He is one of my favorite people in the world. I love being around him and listing to his stories and the crazy things he used to do when he was a kid. Just recently he told us about the time when him and his friends threw firecrackers in a bar and hid in a haystack so they would get caught! If you met him would not think he would ever do anything like that. When I was younger ( Ok I was in high school freshman year I think) he told me that we had the first family reunion on the earth. I was like really that's so cool! He said yeah look in Genesis 1:9, it says " And God said, Let the waters under the heaven be gathered together unto one place". Yeah I totally fell for that one!! I love you so much Grandpa. Thanks for always being there for me and our family. I love the time I get to spend with you and I need to spend more time. LOVE YOU!!!

Thanks T

2008-07-08T16:37:00.000-07:00

So I was having the hardest time figuring out the whole friends and family list thing and Taryn came to my rescue! I was getting so mad, I wanted to throw my computer. Thanks T! (remember when we used to call you that) P.S. when are we going to get together?????

Help

2008-07-06T21:16:00.001-07:00

Ok so I keep trying to make a list of friends and family but I cant figure it out. All I get is the list I have. If someone can tell me how to fix it that would help me out alot.

2008-06-22T12:58:00.001-07:00

2008-06-22T12:58:00.000-07:00

More picturees

2008-06-22T12:56:00.000-07:00

Kenzie's visit

2008-06-22T12:51:00.000-07:00

My littlest sister came to stay with us for a week while my parents and other siblings went on a treck. We had alot of fun with her. On Saturday we took her down to the strip and went to see all the free sites. Here are just some of the pictures.

Jordan Graduated

2008-06-22T12:25:00.001-07:00

My little sister Jordan graduated from high school on June 10. Im so proud of her. She is such an amazing young woman and such a good exapmle to me. I love her so much. Good job Jay!!!

Rocky & Erin wedding

2008-06-09T19:49:00.000-07:00

Our good friends Rocky & Erin were married April 26 2008! It was one of the most beautiful weddings I've ever been to! They are such a cute couple. We love them so dang much! It was also so much fun to see the 7 guys all together again. They have all been good friends since high school. Enjoy the pictures.

Working out

2008-06-07T19:05:00.000-07:00

So Brandon and I decided to get our butts in shape! Oh my I am so sore and its only day 2!!!! We are trying to look good for our trip in August. We will keep you posted.

So we dont update weekly

2008-04-24T19:41:00.000-07:00

So I thought I would update this thing weekly, but I should have known better. We just dont have anything exciting going on in our lives to write about. I am still healing from my shoulder surgery and Brandon is very busy with school. Thats about it. I'll try to find something exciting to share next time.

NEW!

2008-03-06T18:01:00.000-08:00

So we are new to this whole blog thing. We will try to post once a week.